5 THINGS YOU LOOK OUT FOR BEFORE ASKING A LADY OUT.

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Dear Brother

5 THINGS YOU LOOK OUT FOR BEFORE ASKING A LADY OUT. 

1) Be Sure of what You Want from her First.

it's very bad for a lady you are "toasting" to ask you exactly what you want, and you are stuttering, telling her you people should start first, start wetin first? Is it generator? 

My friend, will you enter a taxi if the driver is not sure of his destination, and he tells you to enter first? Will you enter?

2) Don't start calling her sweet names yet

You are applying for admission, don't talk like a graduate.

 Aim high, but start small, like referring to her by her name first, when the gbedu don enter body, she'll be the one suggesting sweet names for you to call her. Till then, calm down. 

 America have not given you visa, you are already speaking "in it, in it"..... kontinu Sir... 

3) Give her small Space during the waiting period. .

Even Jesus Christ the Son of God, when he knocks at the door of our heart, he WAITS for us to open eet.

Your own, you want to break the door..

10 missed calls in 10 minutes.

6:05am
"BABY, what of that thing I told you about?"

6;07am
"Vicky, please don't forget me, I'm waiting" 

7;00am
"My Love, give me a chance na, you won't regret It"

... Uncle, she's already regretting giving you her number..

Give her space to breath and evaluate things, you may pressure her to accept you and you end up regretting it.

Don't stalk her, lest you end up giving her the impression that you are a serial killer. 

4) Don't Demand An instant Answer.

Don't demand that a lady give you her answer there and then.

Relationship is not instant noodles.

A right thinking Lady will want to be sure you are normal and right for her before saying Yes to you. it's nothing out of the ordinary. 

Be Patient 

5) If it becomes apparent that she's just using your proposal to keep herself warm like cardigan, or she's just wasting your time and she's not actually interested in you, Jejely walk away.

is proposal you propose, you didn't commit sin.

~ Sheriff David
#Kakaaki_Olodumare
An Evangelical Drama Minister who shakes and reshapes the world with diverse gospel ministrations and also builds young ones with lectures on Literature and English studies.

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